Generally speaking, bars are the place where most people find their first one night stand, even in today's increasingly diverse types of dating apps. For some people, it's a very stressful experience to date in bars for the first time because you don't have any experience, you don't know how to act, but at the same time you don't want to show that you don't have any experience because you don't want people to think you don't have any knowledge in hookup, how do you dating in bars, maybe there is something you should know before you do it.
Being confident. No matter how many times you come to the bar to hook up, and no matter how many times you've been successful before, being confident is very important, confidence is the biggest source of a person's charm, when people are finding their potential one night stand, the appearance is what draw their attention, in two people who both have good-looking face and fit body, the more confident one are more attractive, especially in a dark environment, you can't see the specific appearance carefully, but you can feel the aura people unleashed, you can feel if they are clam, relax or anxious and panic, so relax yourself, show the most confident self. Even though you didn’t have any hookup experience, you can tell that the person are interested in you. Believe me, they won’t judge for something like that, besides, a hookup virgin, you are quite a catch for some people.
Keep your alcohol intake at the proper level. When people feel nervous, they tend to use alcohol to ease some nervousness in them, it’s indeed useful, but nothing should be overdone, especially for alcohol, too much alcohol will mess your mind, you come here to find one night stand not to get pissed. If you don’t have a clear mind, how do you know the one you are going to go home with is you liked. The reason you choose them in the end is alcohol and the atmosphere confuse your brain. You don't want to regret your decision when you have a clear mind after you leave the bar and tell them that you don't want to hook up with them, it's an embarrassing situation. The another reason you should take too many alcohols is that it’s not safe for you, you don’t know who you are hookup with when you are drunk, they maybe some bad guys, and when you're in real trouble, it's hard for you to do anything, not to mention a unwanted pregnancy often follow a drunk sex, so, better safe than sorry, don’t drink too much when you hook up in bars.
The another thing you should know when you hook up in bars is don’t afraid to flirt with people. Flirting can help you get close to each other in the short time and make people know that you are on the same page with them, not everyone who flirts with you will come home with you, but you can't let go of every opportunity.
