My cousin Linda cried with tears and told me she just broke up with her boyfriend Sam known in a hookup app. because she found he had someone else. She was sad and felt the day was dark. I cheered her up and let her stay alone to calm down . I know something she should get over by herself because other people can’t help her. After a while, she told me she was better.
She told me she had some reflection, she found she was too easy to believe her boyfriend which gave him a chance to date with other girls. And she were customed to wasting money in clothes which was mentioned by her boyfriend for several times. After hearing her words, I felt she was good at least, she could get some reflection after a bad love relationship and didin’t get into sorrow for a long time. But most girls don’t do this. Some girls just complain and they will spend long time getting over this bad love relationship. What I want to say is that girls should cheer up when breakup happens.
Just making complaints is not a wise choice. You will think of the happy days before with your Ex, and you may think of the terrible day for breaking up. Then, you are more awful. I totally understand this feeling bacuse ost people will get through this period. But for girls, what can we do to divert our attention and make us feel better? Here are two important tips girls should remember.
Firstly, like my cousin, you can have self-reflection. Your boyfriend have the biggest problem but what will be if you find this problem easier. You know that maybe you can have a more wonderful breakup which can make you feel better. You should make a conlusion what can help you have better performance in the next relationship and how to see the stupid tricks the man plays. Don’t be fooled by the same tricks the man has.
Secondly, you should find other interesting which can draw your attention. Chatting with a new friend in the hookup dating app can be great. I don’t encourage to hook up on the second day you break up, it is a good way to be a user in BBW dating app when you are prapared. If you are not, just chatting with your best female friend is a good choice. We all know that the friendship of girls is bulit up on the same interest . Complaing with your female friend about the disgusting ex can be really realxing. Trust me, I have done this before.Aha. And also, reconnecting with the friends who are negelcted by your lover. They may wait for you. Hanging out with friends ,going to KTV can be good choices for me. With the accompany of our friends, you are easy to feel better.
No matter the first and the second tips, they are saying that you should love yourself more. Finding a better self is the most important thing we should learn from the bad love relationship. We should cheer up and forget the sorrow.